Are Toxic Beliefs Holding You Back? — Tales From The LaneRichard Koch, who wrote The 80/20 Principal (great book, btw!) about how 80% of one’s results in both business and life come from 20% of…Jul 17, 2023Jul 17, 2023
The 5 Questions I’m Asking Myself This Quarter — Tales From The LaneDo you think of each year in Quarters?Apr 18, 2023Apr 18, 2023
Where is the Line Between Self-Acceptance and Complacency? — Tales From The LaneMany of you know I’m currently working on a book, and the subject is Potential. Defining it, Striving for it, Reaching it.Mar 1, 2023Mar 1, 2023
The No-Yes Spectrum — Tales From The LaneWhen someone asks you to do something, and I’m talking about the whole gamut of asks, here: from “Wanna grab some dinner after rehearsal?”…Feb 20, 2023Feb 20, 2023
The Possible vs. The Impossible — Tales From The LaneI heard a story several years ago on a podcast about a kindergarten teacher who asked her students to draw a picture of what they wanted…Feb 14, 2023Feb 14, 2023
Time-Blocking: The Creative’s Best Friend — Tales From The LaneYou know how “the experts” are always telling you to think about the thing that seems completely obvious to you, that other people aren’t…Jan 16, 2023Jan 16, 2023
Can Your Daily Habits Really Determine Your Success as an Artist? — Tales From The LaneThe buzzword of the last few years has been “Habits” and I think we can all agree that we have James Clear, author of the #1 Best selling…Jul 11, 2022Jul 11, 2022
The Most Important Thing — Tales From The LaneI was in a discussion yesterday with a very wise woman, who mentioned that perhaps the most important thing (and she really did mean The…Feb 7, 2022Feb 7, 2022
Why it’s Time to Rewrite Your ScriptIn rewriting our own scripts, the scary opinions of others, the naysayers, the old ghosts of our past are just minor obstacles to overcome.Jan 11, 2022Jan 11, 2022
The One Thing I Hope You’ll Learn This Year. — Tales From The LaneIf I could wave my magic wand and change one thing for all of my fellow creatives out there, it would be this:Jan 3, 2022Jan 3, 2022
How to Fulfill Your Potential: Step 1 — Tales From The LaneWhat would it look like if you were to reach your full potential?Nov 1, 2021Nov 1, 2021
Walking the Tightrope Between “Pandemic” You and “Normal” You — Tales From The LaneDoes anyone else notice a bit of tension in the air these days?Oct 25, 2021Oct 25, 2021
My Unconventional Quest For the Perfect Coach — Tales From The LaneI was catching up with a friend the other day, and she was asking me about the coaching work I’ve been doing over the past couple of years.Oct 18, 2021Oct 18, 2021
The #1 Sign That You’re Ready for Big-Time Growth — Tales From The LaneThis weekend I found myself jumping up from the sofa and suddenly going around the house grabbing anything that wasn’t useful. I felt…Oct 4, 2021Oct 4, 2021
We’re in the Midst of a The Global Mid-Life Crisis — Tales From The LaneOne thing this Covid-19 Pandemic has taught us is that life is short, and life is fragile. 18 months later (and still in it!) Everything…Sep 28, 2021Sep 28, 2021
It’s Time to Kon-Mari Our Careers — Tales From The LaneMarch of 2020: Performances were canceled mid-rehearsal cycle. Some managed to pay the musicians. Most did not.Sep 13, 2021Sep 13, 2021
How I Went From Languishing to ThrivingDid you read that NYT Article by Adam Grant about Languishing? It went completely viral, and talked about that feeling that so many are…May 10, 2021May 10, 2021
Finish Strong: Battling Our Collective Senioritis.A few Sundays ago, I hopped into the morning group session for my Bridge Online Cello Studio. My students are a bunch of smart…May 3, 2021May 3, 2021
The Most Important Skill Musicians Need to Have Right Now:I came across a post the other day on social media. It was from a musician who is doing some side coaching in the health and wellness…Apr 19, 2021Apr 19, 2021
5 Ways to Gain More Career ClaritySearching for my ideal work/life situation has been a long process for me. From orchestral player to freelancer to recitalist, to teacher…Mar 30, 2021Mar 30, 2021